The Magic Of Making Up Review – Unconventional & Effective
There are two words to describe T. W Jackson’s book, The Magic of Making Up and those are “unconventional” and “effective.” Unconventional because most of the ideas in the book go against the very grain of conventional though processes with regard to making up after a break up.
Some of the methods that he suggests like welcoming a break up and to feel happy or at least pretend to be, might sound appallingly detrimental but actually seem to work quite well if one is to go by the hundreds of testimonials that he has been credited with.
T.W Jackson or T – dub as he prefers himself to be called, has a very honest approach to all the issues surrounding a break up and very practically implemental solutions as well. He lists out case studies one after the other, most of them, seemingly true scenarios and uses them to point out what went wrong or what had been done wrong in all those circumstances. That’s as far as the conventional part goes. He then sets off to reveal the unconventional methodology that one has to adopt in order to win back an ex.
Though there is no doubt that T-dub cannot lay claim to being a doctor or a psychiatrist or a qualified counselor, there can be no doubt about the fact that he is well versed when it comes to dealing with relationship issues and has a wealth of practical knowledge which he turns to in his book. All the wisdom therein is from real life experiences and not from class room lectures or book reading. It’s a good thing that he decided to put all that wisdom into words for the benefit of others.
The magic of making up reviews every different relationship issue from simple unintentional quarrels that leads to a straining of the relationship to serious stuff like fisticuffs and lots of screaming that lead to quarrelsome break ups. His reasoning is simple, there is inevitability to every relationship in that they tend to fizzle out as the passion decreases or when one of the individuals falls into another relationship or simply because things have got to a point of no return.
The author warns women who have taken back estranged husband’s who were convicted for years or men who have pardoned their ex girlfriends and wives who have been unfaithful multiple times.
There are many common errors made by desperate individuals who have been dumped or broken up with their partners. These include calling up and talking to their partners when they are drunk or unabatedly text messaging them for hours. These practices have been called as drunken dialing and text message terrorism respectively by the author and he calls them as cardinal errors in the aftermath of a break up.
The magic of making up reviews all such errors and also goes beyond and explores more grievous scenarios that have moved on beyond the initial point and suggests solutions based on counter intuitive strategies that work for the benefit of the distraught individual in getting back with their ex.